Life can certainly be difficult. And chaotic. And stressful. We seem to get pulled in a hundred different directions all at the same time. Everyone else’s problems seem to become our problems. And our problem is that everyone else can’t seem to do things the way we do things. Our economy is in turmoil. Jobs are being lost. Work sucks. Weekends go by too quick. Everything costs more. Good customer service seems to be a thing of the past. We get stuck in traffic, we get stuck in the same job, we get stuck trying to figure out how to order a five dollar coffee. Life is difficult. And chaotic. And stressful.
Yes. Stress is everywhere, whether real or imagined. The term generally gets used as a catch-all for all perceived difficulties in life. Stress can lead to tension, the inability to concentrate and a number of physical reactions such as increased heart rate and headaches. If you’ve never experienced this, then just try and put together a barbeque. 9 hours and 176 steps later I’m usually quite irritable – a “grumpy-gus” my wife and daughter would say. [click to continue…]
I listened to a very compelling interview tonight that has really changed how I look at emotions. The conversation dealt with the “intelligence of the heart” – a topic I have not given a lot of thought to over my years. Ok, none in fact. Until tonight I had been quite content with knowing that my little ticker was just keeping me alive. Sure I have given some thought to the heart being our “emotional center”. I talk to my 5-year old daughter each day about where my love radiates from – my heart. At the age of 5 she takes my message in the literal sense. She believes that her heart is her emotions. For me however, I have somehow adopted the truth that this was all metaphorical or symbolical. So our heart is just a symbol of our love and emotion.
OK, you may be asking, what does all this have to do with our health? Well apparently it has everything to do with not only our health but also our overall fulfillment and happiness in life. What if the heart played a key role in the generation of our emotional experience? Not from a symbolic perspective but from a measured, scientific perspective. [click to continue…]